"... we are always harking back to some occasion which seemed to us to reach perfection, setting that up as a norm, and depreciating all other occasions by comparison. But these other occasions, I now suspect, are often full of their own new blessing, if only we would lay ourselves open to it. " (C. S. Lewis)



Wednesday, August 24, 2011

~ To Love Is To Go




Even though the work is hard,



And the conditions are difficult,


And the area is in turmoil,



TO LOVE IS TO GO!



Even though you don't know the language



or the people


or their ways,


TO LOVE IS TO GO!



Even though others have stopped going,




TO LOVE IS TO GO!




In July, my oldest went to Mexico to build a house for a family who had little more than a broken down shack. I was scared to send my son into a country with so much unrest, where thousands of people have lost their lives due to drug-related killings, but I knew God would honor his desire to serve the poor. More importantly, I knew God would BE honored by his obedience. God loves the poor. And God calls us to love the poor. And in that moment of trying to be a parent and make the hard call to send him or not, I could not deny the truth that sometimes to LOVE, you have to GO!


Whoever oppresses the poor shows contempt for their Maker, but whoever is kind to the needy honors God. (Proverbs 14:31)


If anyone has material possessions and sees a brother or sister in need but has no pity on them, how can the love of God be in that person? Dear children, let us not love with words or speech but with actions and in truth. (I John 3:17-18)


Is not this the kind of fasting I have chosen: to loose the chains of injustice and untie the cords of the yoke, to set the oppressed free and break every yoke? Is it not to share your food with the hungry and to provide the poor wanderer with shelter— when you see the naked, to clothe them, and not to turn away from your own flesh and blood? Then your light will break forth like the dawn, and your healing will quickly appear; then your righteousness will go before you, and the glory of the LORD will be your rear guard... and if you spend yourselves in behalf of the hungry and satisfy the needs of the oppressed, then your light will rise in the darkness, and your night will become like the noonday. (Isaiah 58:6-8, 10)


Pictures are from Josiah's trip to Tecate, Mexico: working at the house site, finding ways to make friends when you can't communicate (soccer in the streets), dedicating the family's new home, and giving a new truck to a lady who is tireless in her efforts to help her people - God's ambassador in Tecate! (The second week, our volunteers and youth pooled their money and bought a truck for this special lady and her incredible ministry to the area.)

Saturday, August 20, 2011

~ How To Have a Country Wedding




Find the perfect spot...



Make sure there's an awesome barn...


and a tractor (of course).




Surround yourself with people you love...






and people that love you.



Find ways to make it meaningful.


The bride's two grandpas had passed away, but their belongings hidden behind a tree made the day special for the bride.




The couple's chuppa had belonged to the bride's grandmother who passed away.



Keep it simple...



No unity candle here - just salt and sugar!



Old fashioned fans for the guests



Add a touch of whimsy...



Do what country folk do -


Have a campfire!
Roast a pig!



Keep it family friendly.



Remember every detail...

Savor every moment...


and linger long after the sun goes down.




All photos were taken at the wedding of a friend's daughter. It was held at the amazing Cedar Hill Barn in Markesan, Wisconsin on a perfect August afternoon.